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bananaseedo's picture

I've noticed in responding to both of kenny's threads that one of them keeps dissapearing and re-appearing over and over....at least a dozen times. I have never seen that happen when others are responding to threads. I though you can't delete your posts in blogs, I thought only admins had the power to do that? For it to show up/not show until a few mins later?

I thought only admins could do that.....I'd like an answer from Dawn about it. Makes things quite odd to be honest.

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Indigo's picture

I delete my blogs periodically. It's easy. Posting on the Forum side requires Admin to delete.

bananaseedo's picture

Yes, but it deletes and mins late re-appears w/all comments. Something isn't right-I've never seen that happen before.

I have screen shots saved for anyone who cares to see what I'm talking about.

twoviewpoints's picture

Maybe because Dawn checks and monitors and then finishes. I assume she has to get into comments to do so.

I'd hate to have Dawn's job. I can't imagine babysitting a bunch of grown women with nothing better to do all weekend than pick on each other. Sad

Willow2010's picture

I'd hate to have Dawn's job. I can't imagine babysitting a bunch of grown women with nothing better to do all weekend than pick on each other
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Amen sister.

Acratopotes's picture

Dawn has the best job ever ladies..... she sits the whole day, baby sitting an adult crash, while having popcorn and some wine laughing her ass off at our stupidity!!!!

Then when nothing happens... she hides comments or posts and un hide it after a day, enough drama to keep us going for a week..
I wonder if she and the rest of her team has a hat where they draw from... who's blog goes into hiding today.... who's comments are we blocking for an hour..

then they take bets who's bitching first,

Acratopotes's picture

hahahahaha NO I'm not a friend in Dawns imagination and she's not one of my personalities but it's what I would've done lol

bananaseedo's picture

You can refresh the home page- it's there and then it's not over and over...sooooo.....

Indigo's picture

Shoot. I was hoping that I had an answer since the rest of my day has been ineffective. Wink

DaizyDuke's picture

This is the chick who is shoving her daughter (and her daughter's orthodontist bills) down her exes throat when there is no proof kid is even his? Not sure why anyone would be silly enough to even comment on that nonsense?

anyway, I just looked and it looks like admin turned the commenting off for those before there is the usual WWIII that Kenny's propaganda posts always generate.

Dontfeedthetrolls's picture

I think ALOT of people don't believe this poster is real. There are a lot of inconsistency and an odd progression.

I think the reason people comment through is that the posts bring up HIGHLY controversial topics that everyone wants to discuss.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

^^Uh-huh. Which is why I refuse to comment on questionable posts. Not worth the drama.

Dontfeedthetrolls's picture

I think the questionable post still bring up good discussion points that people want to debate.

How much responsibility does a man have to find out if a child is his or not when the mother doesn't seek to prove it?

How much is the then mother to blame for the father missing out on years of his child's life?

Is it right for a mother to decide not to seek child support for multiple years then suddenly changer her mind later having denied the father parental rights up till that point.?

How should the court handle the situation while there is a man who's been acting as the child's father in all ways including emotional and finical?

How much should a noncustodial parent pay to support a child? Should it go beyond basic child support such as sports, college, and car?

When do you tell the child the truth about their biological parents?

How do you interact with a bioparents family?

There are honestly so many more. These aren't the reason the person is posting but that's why the discussion is getting so intense. People feel strongly about these topics and want to debate them. It's only through peoples post that these topics get discussed. A lot of these aren't things that we can really talk to anyone else about. No one else would understand unless they are directly connected. It's easy for someone disconnected to say a person should pay X amount for a kid and have X amount of time and how their life circumstances (family, health, bills) should impact that support. But if your in the trenches you see things differently.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Oh, I definitely agree that some posts bring up good discussion topics, but I'd rather create another blog than contribute to the Sh!te Show. }:)

classyNJ's picture

Agree! I admit I did scan some of the comments because the topic itself was interesting but there is no way in hell I would touch it!

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Exactly, classy!! I absolutely refuse to engage with the craziness. Crews, trolls, agitators, instigators, drama queens/kings... I will neither comment on their blogs nor respond to their comments. WTH is the BLOCK feature??

bananaseedo's picture

Yes, I think that's it-the topics themselves bring out the desire to discuss/debate them because they are 'prickly' on this board.

Bedrooms for kids vs skids
Pictures of other parents in the room/house
Greedy bm's/money grabbing from bm's or skids

Of course tons more...

Aniki-Moderator's picture

You know what this site needs? A section for people who are THINKING about becoming a stepparent. Y'know... people who have been in a relationship for a few months (or longer) with someone who has kids, they're not married, they don't live together....

Thinking about becoming a Stepparent? Things to Consider...