BM had fallen off the face of the earth. Only posting on FB about once a week. And hadn't called or text SS in a few weeks. Her mom even text me and asked if I had heard from her that she was getting worried. Of course I hadn't. And I told her that she hadn't contacted SS in a while either. The very next day she text SS and told him that she had to move (she was living about 30 minutes away, in the same county) and she doesn't have cell service a landline or internet where she is. He responded "ok".

So, of course I asked her stepmom what was going on today. She said she moved about 2 hours away. Still doesn't have a car. No phone, no TV and no internet... and is all by herself. Apparently the girl she was living with moved and found her a new place to stay for free in exchange for caring for animals. Well the animals aren't there yet, and neither is the woman that owns the home. She is stranded.

Apparently she asked them specifically NOT to tell DH and I where she moved to. Not sure why. It's not like we are going to show up at her door any time soon. According to the ORIGINAL custody paperwork, she is not allowed to move with SS outside of a specific 45 mile radius. This is WAY outside that. But really... does any of that original court order even matter anymore. It is suspended until she goes to rehab so... it's not like she can fight to take him out there. Not that he would EVER want to. I just don't get why it would be such a secret from us. We don't give a rats ass where she lives really. I just wanted to make sure SOMEONE tells her to change her address with SS's insurance company so he doesn't lose that coverage AGAIN.

SS is doing FABULOUSLY. He has all A's and B's on his report card. He just bought himself a dirt bike. And DH no longer travels so they have been able to spend a lot of time together. He is a happy kid.