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Submitted by Barbara31 on Tue, 07/18/2017 - 10:37am

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Ok so U have a question for all the step dads. I've been with my mab for 7 years already he was there when u gave birth to my now 7 year old daughter he is all she nows but she knows that that us not her real father, her father hasn't been there for her for the past 7 years he contacts me once in awhile and every four years or so and tries to say hello and wants to see if you can meet his daughter until the last time I heard of him was when she was one years old he doesn't pay child support but nothing recently he contacted me and wants to talk. Idk what to do

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Submitted by CANYOUHELP on Tue, 07/18/2017 - 12:12pm

Would you mind rewriting this and adding supporting details? I am unable to respond, given the limited information you have provided. More than happy to help...and glad you are reaching out for support here...great place to start!

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Submitted by Thumper on Tue, 07/18/2017 - 2:30pm

One "years" old?

Miss, I believe there is another post with your question. You may want to come back and offer US more info.

Trying to help.

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Submitted by Rags on Tue, 07/18/2017 - 3:52pm

Ignore him. Call your attorney and get ready for court just in case.

I would also motion to terminate his parental rights based on child abandonment and move forward with the adoption of your child by your husband.

My wife and I met and started dating when SS-24 (nearly 25)was 15mos old. We married the week before he turned 2yo. I have always been his dad. Though he did have regular visitation with the SpermClan he rarely saw the SpermIdiot on those visitations and over the course of the 7wks of visitation he had with the SpermClan each year he saw his SpermDad on average about 3-5 days a year for a part of those days.

My son always has known who his SpermIdiot is but he also has always known who his REAL dad is. I have had his back and raised him as my own since he was a toddler. I am not his biological father but I am his REAL dad.

A few months before his 23rd birthday he asked me to adopt him. We made that happen. So now we have papers making official what has always been the case. I am his dad.

Good luck and take care of yourself and your family.