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just wondering....

missmama1234's picture

How long did it take for you to completely let go of anger/resentment?

Acratopotes's picture

The day I disengaged....

no more anger, and never really resented the kid... not her fault she got shitty parents.

Pharlap's picture

It's been Going on 5 years and probably not stopping anytime
Soon. My resentment and anger is mostly towards BM and the shit storms she tries to cause in our home. She'll get quit, I'll start letting go and we'll all be cordial and then she starts shit again and the resentment starts growing again. I can't wait till SS turns 18. First time she starts shit (and she will) I will gleefully tell her what I've been thinking for years. Screw the always taking the high road.