OT - what's the worst fight you ever had with your spouse?Submitted by secret on Thu, 04/20/2017 - 12:51pm
I haven't fought with mine yet. We've disagreed on a few things, but it never got negative... he stated his stance, I stated mine, we agreed we had different views on it and moved on to talk about other things.
With my ex-h, the biggest fights we ever had were all about his mother. She was always in my face.
Rearranging my furniture.
Washing (and ruining some of) my clothes.
Painting my walls.
Changing my child's godparents. And the baptism date. And the church.
Cutting up the top layer of my wedding cake for brunch with her family the day after my wedding. Yes, she knew we were saving it for our first anniversary. It was already in the freezer.
Throwing jars of homemade stuff... saying canned goods aren't safe... and replacing them with her old margarine containers of craptastic tomato meat sauce in my freezer.
and so on... the worst fight was about her, all the stuff she did....and him saying she's my mom, I can't tell her to stop... it culminated in me telling him he chose his mom over his wife...and that his decision had broken our kids' family. I walked out, with my wallet, keys and the clothes on my back, and never went back.