Do these bms not have a brain or what?Submitted by monkeyskids on Tue, 01/10/2017 - 7:42am
Why do bms really wonder why they have out of control kids? Ever since the divorce, bm has seen the skids as a paycheck and PASed the hell out of the kids. When sd wanted to go live with dad, bm would buy her something to get her to stay. The turned into sd manipulating and saying she wanted to go to dad's so she could get bm to do what she wanted her to do. Now, bm has an out-of-control teen who she cannot do anything about so what does she do? You better behave or I'm going to send you to live with dad. This of course works, for a few days, then sd acts out again.
We have offered to help, bm has begged us to help, but in the end, sd manipulates bm to doing what she wants to do. Yeah, I'm done bm. She's your daughter, you deal with her.