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Stepmom3578's picture

Hi all ive been wih my lesbian partner for 4 years down she already had a daughter who is now 12 who i took on as my own.. we have split once or twice but i always come back things change but then i become unhappy again. My partner is on the sick so i work 50 hours plus a week to keep us. She moans i want to sleep when home etc. I have our daughter screaming and being really cheeky to me. Last week i went on the sick for depression and now i may be loosing my job. We are rowing alot over this. But in my opinion it was ok for her to on the sick for a genuine reasons so why not me? Im low in mood and thinking of ways to get out all the time. Im scared to leave as she will come after me and make my life hell. I have no money nothing please help with suggestions

Stepmom3578's picture

I havent adopted her no... only put i was in a same sex relationship as women think dofferent to men etc and she is on the sixk she wont work

ChiefGrownup's picture

What concerns me is the statement that you can't leave because she will "come after" you and make your life "hell."

What does this mean?

We may be able to help you better if we understand why you are afraid to leave?

Stepmom3578's picture

Shes off work as shes depressed. Step daughter is boilogically hers and has contact with her dad who was a friend who donated sperm.
I know she will make my life very difficult she is very witty and ive seen her and beard her saying stuff she would do to her ex... i feel so lost and down all the time

Stepmom3578's picture

Shes off work as shes depressed. Step daughter is boilogically hers and has contact with her dad who was a friend who donated sperm.
I know she will make my life very difficult she is very witty and ive seen her and beard her saying stuff she would do to her ex... i feel so lost and down all the time

Stepmom3578's picture

She knows everywhere i would go.. how i can i leave when shes always here Sad all my stuff etc

Rags's picture

Since you have not adopted this child there is nothing preventing your departure from this relationship other than gaining the will to actually do it.

So leave. And don't go back. Your in then out then in again indecisiveness is harming this child, her mother, and yourself.

Go!