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Any guess on what surgery BM had

Lulu90's picture

BM keeps everything (I mean everything she can a secret) well SS7 came home saying BM had surgery. According to him it is her back however, I saw her carrying her 3 year old into the church 3 weeks ago. But SS7 said she can't bend over or drive for 6 weeks. He also said she has to sit in bed and can't change her son's diapers. Any guesses??

Also, BMs MIL was in town with the kids during the surgery but her husband didn't go to the hospital with her. Her friend drove her. (umm weird)

Lulu90's picture

Lol thats how I am too. BM is the opposite. She stays in the hospital as long as possible.

Lulu90's picture

I didn't have a csection but I was back to volunteering at church twice a week for half days 2 weeks after giving birth. I was like how the hell do women sit and do nothing for 6 weeks after. I was sore and it wasn't anything physical mainly talking but still.

You'll like this then BM didn't drive her kid to preschool for 6 weeks after giving birth. It was just too hard.

Lulu90's picture

I am just like you. I my mind I am like women gave birth then had to work in the house or no dinner for the family in the past.

Acratopotes's picture

}:) }:) when they took my ovaries, basically same operation as C section (yeah old fashion I know but it's africa)

I was suppose to stay over night, I refused, went to theater 7am, woke up 12 noon, got into my car at 14:00 and drove off, now that was real stupid and hurt like hell, but I got home eventually lol..... had Deigma at home to care for, he played nurse

Lulu90's picture

I know she is doesn't like her boobs. Small and saggy. Her DH stares at mine (super awkward BTW) but i do have a great rack. When I was breastfeeding we are talking porn star boobs plus I lost the baby weight fast like a week.

Lulu90's picture

The recovery time is that long for that. I have few friends that had it but they were back at work 2 weeks later.

Rags's picture

My vote is .... she didn't have surgery. She is faking it to get her MIL to cater to her.

Time to start some rumors!!!!!!!!

zerostepdrama's picture

Well it's her personal business... so... not sure how it will benefit you knowing about it... some things are just meant to be a mystery...

Lulu90's picture

Someone in her house always has a medical "emergency" but usually its her over reacting to something not serious. When SS was a baby she took him to the er every time he had a funny colored poop or his poop was soft as a toddler. But keeps everything super secretive. She has actually asked SS doctor not to tell DH what he was being tested for because her son had it (hence SS getting tested)

Glassslipper's picture

She can't drive till her 6 week f/u because they put her on narcotic pain medication, that is the only reason they tell you not to drive after procedure id because of the narcotic pain meds.
If she can't bend over/lift anything I would assume it is something to do with the abdominal or back region. If her DH didn't go with her, I would assume its a day surgery kinda thing.
MY vote is a uterine ablation or something to that effect.

Lulu90's picture

I googled it. Hmm maybe at lease we know she probably won't have more kids. She isn't 30 do they do it on women that young?

Lulu90's picture

Update... she emailed DH saying she had Back surgery.

This is the 5th surgery between her and her son in a year. Any guesses why insurances prices for everyone are going up?