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Rogue's picture

I cant do this anymore. My husband turns into a horrible person when his daughter enters our house. He ignores me completely, when he does talk to me its like hes talking to pond scum! SD is a 18 year old obese, ill mannered manipulative cow, who is stuck to her dads ass like a tick! Whenever he gets up, she jumps up and follow him around like a puppy. She will insult me when he isnt around and tell me she wish i would die. Then when i confront her in front of her dad she will lie in his face! And of course he will take the SD's side! Im done! I have had it with their sick relationship! Apparently she is moving back in with us soon! I will not stick around for that! She can be the WIFE in the house, and even take over the bedroom duties as well! Sad
SS 16 isnt much of a problem, he stays with us full time and i can handle him most of the time. Ive caught him stealing my underwear a few times or discovered my bra's with streaks on them, like he masturbated over it, yuck! But most of the time we get along! But i HATE SD with a passion!

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sammigirl's picture

How long have you been married? If you are unable to set some boundaries in the household, I hope you are employed and looking for a place to move to.

Sorry and hope you can move forward to a better life than this. :jawdrop:

JustAgirl42's picture

I think I remember someone suggested trying to record when your SD talks to you like that and then having your DH listen to it. Have you tried that?

I don't really have any other advice except maybe counseling if you haven't tried that?

Things don't sound good. Is there anything positive at all? Sad

Disneyfan's picture

Yeah, I think the SS is more of a problem than the SD. I fin it odd that the OP hates the mouthy SD, but is fine with the creepy boy. :sick: :sick:

hereiam's picture

So, are you leaving? Are you leaving this household full of people who constantly disrespect you?

CANYOUHELP's picture

Yes, are you leaving this dysfunctional place that only makes you feel 3rd/4th rate? Nobody has listened yet, but they will finally get the point when you walk out the door. You know it is bad when your favorite skid is master.......ing in your bras!

Plan your exit carefully now, get enough cash for attorney fees.

Acratopotes's picture

:jawdrop: seriously.....

record SD..... and next time you find some streaked undies dump it on SS lap and say - you disgusting pig.. now keep it!!!

Lock your bedroom Hon, then SS can't get in there.... for SD manipulating your DH....ignore them both...

Yo made a mistake getting married, have you thought about getting your own place close to H's place and moving out...
then H can visit you, if you really do love him.

You 2 have broken up and gotten back together so many time before wedding, I do not think this will last, I think it would be best if you pack up yours and go.. you are a gorgeous woman and will find some one else who will treat your better, H is not doing anything he promised last year, maybe he will get a wake up call once you leave... if not then it was not meant to be....

Rogue's picture

YEAH< IM LEAVING! I CANT DEAL WITH THESE SICK BASTARDS! NOT EVEN MARRIED 10 MONTHS! IVE HAD IT!