Seriously

dingdong's picture

Just venting about BM.

I used this site a while back, but I couldn't for the life of me remember the email I used when I signed up Sad SAD.

Anyways. You ladies have always helped me no matter the topic, today I'm just bitching.

So BM is still as absent as ever even though she lives in the same town as us, SS is still living with us full time and always will be. He turned 5 back in June which was the last time BM saw SS. She was supposed to take him on a family vacation last month but just simply didn't show up, didn't call, text.. typical. Anyways. (This is what she always does, goes a couple months with zero contact then BAM calls out of the blue) Last night she calls from a number DH didn't recognize so he answered it and she's like hey, I'm at walmart does -SS- need any school supplies? When does school start? (Her other child starts the same exact day). DH hangs up the phone and she texts him wow really?

WOW REALLY? You go almost 2 months without having any kind of contact with your son, and only want to know if he needs school supplies? NO HE NEEDS A FREAKING MOTHER. She pisses me off so bad.

Maybe that was all we will hear from her for the next 2 months though, I highly doubt it, but you never know.

RainbowsAndDaisies's picture

If there is not a court order in place that states that your Dh has sole physical custody, get one. Yesterday.

Dh and I having been dealing with a BM like yours for eight years.

You can PM me if you want.