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We have officially passed over into the level of crazy witnessed on this site...

Starryeyed's picture

I have read stories on this site for coming on 5 years and in my own way, despite having two bms, have been grateful that my skids are not as horrible as some of the little shits I have seen on here. However, I am trying so hard to be civil tonight and in fairness to skid, it's my Dh I feel completely repulsed by right now (and skid but to a lesser extent)....

Last week I left baby (18 weeks with dh) and went for a few glasses of wine with my best friend. During the course of the night , dh sends me a picture of ss13 bruised arm. He had mentioned previously all the boys in his school play a game where they punch each other. However the bruising was so bad, my dh flipped and told as if he saw anything like this again he would be going to the principal. Myself and Dhabi even discussed during the week whether we were both satisfied with his story... We both feel he acts like the hard man in school which resulted in this.

Any ways ss to avoid trouble from bm1 when she spotted this has blamed dh. Yes they trick act but nothing to this extent. Dh only found out when gbm mentioned it, and he set her straight. I'm surprised bm didn't ring dh (which lets be honest would be within her right) but bm told gbm that dh did this.

I am furious, dh of course has brushed this under the carpet. He told me he spoke to as about the seriousness of such allegations but did he really?? He actually rewarded ss by putting buying a fancy dinner and putting on a movie that while was 12s contained 53 uses of fuck, never mind asshole, shit and dick. I feel disgusted by all involved. I told dh to contact bm1 (they very rarely talk anymore) and told him how important it is for ss to know they will communicate over such important issues.

On a side note what has really made me flip is dh has yet to contribute to bs fund. Nada despite saying he would and again as previously mentioned, bs does not cost him a cent at the moment. However ss has child support and savings and extra money spent on him(I would love 400 a month from dh!!). However of course bm can't afford a hair cut yet again for ss, it's embarrassing and pathetic. Any ways just had to rant before I do some serious carnage in my home tonight. What a joke. At least I have now removed myself from the madness and left them to it while I cuddle my bubs in bed who is actually singing to me right now Smile

Starryeyed's picture

Meant to mention ss said dh did this as he wouldn't get in trouble with been. I am fuming and so angry right now.

Starryeyed's picture

Meant to mention ss said dh did this as he wouldn't get in trouble with been. I am fuming and so angry right now.

Starryeyed's picture

Meant to mention ss said dh did this as he wouldn't get in trouble with been. I am fuming and so angry right now.

LikeMinded's picture

Thank goodness he didn't say it was you.

I'm not sure if you're in the U.S., but if CPS were to come and take your SS away... they'll take ALL kids away.

You're at risk.