Got a Very Emotional Phone Call from the Twit and I Hope She Means What She Says
As you know, Twit caught ahold of DH and wanted me to apologize and make things okay with her or she would more or less disown him. Well, you know what I thought about that.
This morning we got a phone call from her (went to messages but we could hear what she was saying). Evidently she is all through with her Father because I have not apologized to her. She is done and wants nothing more to do with either him or me!!
I am hoping that she means what she says there, but somehow I doubt it. I think it is bait to get DH to call her back etc., and he darn well better not.
According to her bloviating on the message, I wronged her, I need to apologize and she will then consider whether she will have anything more to do with us. Good gracious, the woman is, well this we already know, off her rocker.
As I clearned the reakfast dishes I was humming: Happy Days are here again, and I certainly hope she means what she says. It is comical, she blows up at me, gets all nasty in front of DH where there is no way he can try to rationalize her craziness and then all of a sudden I am the one that owes her an apology. She lives in a fantasy world that scares the begesus out of me and would scare the begesus out of any one. No wonder her "babies" are all screwed up.
After that message from her husband a few days back, I am starting to wonder just how long until he reaches his breaking point or if he will just continue to suffer, isolated, with crazy. Oh, well, NMP.
Let's all pray that she meant what she said until I get better, find a house and move from craziville.
sHE SOUnds like she has
sHE SOUnds like she has borderline personality disorder.
How about "I'm sorry...that
How about "I'm sorry...that you're such an a$$hole"...
I give her 24 hours and she
I give her 24 hours and she will be back to calling your phone again.
You couldn't possibly get that lucky.
Hi Towanda - I give her until
Hi Towanda - I give her until Thanksgiving and then she won't be able to stand the fact that no one cares what the heck she says. Better yet, wait until she drives by (and I have no doubt she does) and see we have company over the holiday - My DD is going to be here --- She will go nutz but unfortunately, her barrage falls on us.
"As I cleaned the breakfast
"As I cleaned the breakfast dishes I was humming: Happy Days are here again." Oh---- the 'final' threat! If you're lucky she will be too mad to call for a while. Has DH said anything about this last call? Actually she did you a favor. Your DH knows you haven't done anything to her. The latest call just further demonstrates to him how crazy this whole situation is.
Sadly, from experience, you
Sadly, from experience, you and I can both bet this is not the final threat. Wait until she gets to Thanksgiving. She sooo wants one of those nice warm holidays, but does nothing to make it that way. When she treats people like garbage....like okay, you are here, but I've had my fill of family eventhough dinner is still in progress and I am going off, with my babies to go SHOPPING the h*ll with all of you.
Keep your fingers crossed for me, any days with quiet from the cretin are welcome.
An early Christmas present,
An early Christmas present, perhaps?
Happy days are here again
The skies above are clear again
So let's sing a song of cheer again
Happy days are here again
Isn't is strange, how all too often all it takes is one outlier to say they don't want to cater to crazy, and all H@ll breaks loose?
No doubt Twit will ramp up the crazy during the holidays, but you've got her on the ropes now.
I know you delete the messages Twit leaves, but have you considered keeping a calendar to track how many she leaves each day? It might come in handy ay some point.
SDM--I've followed your posts
SDM--I've followed your posts for a couple years now. Even though I haven't been posting here for a long time as my psycho SD has removed her craziness from our lives, I do still read here quite a bit so I've been keeping up with everyone's stories. I am so happy for you that twit is having a tantrum and threatening to have nothing to do with you and DH. If she keeps to her word and she does disown your DH, it would be so wonderful. I know it's been wonderful for my DH and I to have no contact with psycho princess. She has tried attacking us via email but just as you guys ignore twits calls, we ignore her nasty emails. The emails are just long rants filled with insults and name calling. Just like twit, she imagines things and tries to guilt her father into doing what she wants. My DH is very mentally strong and wants nothing to do with her toxicity.
I'm really hoping twit follows through with writing you guys off but sadly I don't think she will. I think these are idle threats aimed at her father as she wants him to beg at her feet and she wants her grand apology from you while you are on your knees. It's pretty sick and she's acting like a 2 year old. I don't think she will quit playing games with you until she finds a new "victim". I mean, I wouldn't wish her nastiness on anyone (except perhaps my SD }:) ) but it would be nice for you and your DH if she found someone new to start trouble with. I think when that day comes that you will be free. Pray that she gets bored torturing you as you remain disengaged. There will be a new victim at some point.
"Boo hoo hoo, SDM won't apologize to me (twit) so I can't have a relationship with my father, waaaaahhh, wwaaahhh, sniff, sniff". She's crazy and this is just a game. She's freaking out as her latest attempts of manipulating you both aren't working. Good job to you and your DH! Stay strong!
I'm sorry for sounding so negative but I did want to leave a quick message to you wishing you a nice holiday and hoping that you continue to heal. You're a good lady and you deserve peace and happiness in your life. I know you will find it.
Take care and keep us posted!
Amber
Hi Skeeter! I'm doing well,
Hi Skeeter!
I'm doing well, thank you. I'm just really busy lately with my boys and my health condition. Thank you for your kind words. I hope you are doing well too. I will be around
Have a nice holiday
Amber
Hi Amber - You are right,
Hi Amber - You are right, until she finds someone else to torture I'm it - at least until we get the h*ll out of crazyville.
Bear with me, I can pretty much figure out who it is going to be. Her son's girlfriend. The young lady is from Germany and has a mind of her own. Right now they are engaged and Twit is probably aflutter with the thoughts of making bucks giving her a Pot and Pan shower. But once she starts, if she hasn't already, separating Twit from sonny boy, Twit will see that as an act of war and go after her.
I say this because several years back she started on the girl's mother when they were here visiting the US from Germany. Twit was complaining to DH that the Mother wanted to break them up because she didn't want her daughter so far away in another country. But, according to Twit, Twit explained to her that she needed to understand that they were adults yadda, yadda, yadda. Good old Twit who KNOWS everything.
So, I being curious, mentioned to Twit's hubby, in a shocked way, that I was surprised to hear that German girl's mother was trying to break them up and that the Mother had actually said that to Twit. Twit's hubby seemed to let out a deep, disgusted breath, and said he had heard no such comments, etc. from either the girl's mother or father, but that was what Twit claimed. He went on to say he talked to his son about this and was told there was no such problem, the Mother wasn't trying to break them up.
You get the picture. I often wonder what the parents actually thought of Twit. They stayed with her about 3 days, as I recall, and I know Twit doesn't handle outsiders being in her home well. Heck, she doesn't even know how to set the table flatware properly.
Anyway, I figure when we move, the poor young lady is gonna be the victim. Me, I hope they graduate, get married and move far, far away from the Twit for their health and best interest.
You all know what is the
You all know what is the strangest thing about this last call from Twit? I am the one that cut all ties, communication, etc. with her for a long time! Now, all of a sudden she believes, in her fantasy world of course, that she cut me off! Man, this woman is totally out of sync with reality.
She is the one that tries to invite us to BBQ using the fact that her son and his girlfriend will be there - DH declined. Leaves messages about things that are going on in town that I might be interested in - I am interested in them, just not with her. Last year she left a message inviting us for Thanksgiving and DH left her hanging until the Monday before and then told her thanks, but no thanks, we were busy. And of course Christmas there was no way in hades this cretin was coming near my house. I recall DH said and showed me the Christmas card she sent, he was so estatic about it (I looked because he pretty much shoved it in my face and noticed that she signed the names of her three ADULT babies on it which IMHO was strange), said "hmmm" or something to let him know I heard him and that was that.
And we all know about the constant calls, pleading, threats, etc. So, just who is staying away from whom? But, knowing Twit think she wants to believe that she is cutting me out not the other way. Oh well, who cares, as long as she is gone.