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devastatedmimi's picture

:? My issue is about resenting and losing respect for my husband. Im disabled, so the money.i get is the only money i see until the next month. My husband works. Very hard worker but whays his is his. We, i mean, he has a garnishment on a truck that i told him we could not afford, but he did it anyways..Hes also got another repo on his credit and will garnis his wages soon. Right now all he paus is 425 for rent. The rest is up to me or my kids. If thet wwerent there, we would starve. He abused drugs for more than 13 years. Now its trucks. Buying, flipping, selling. Taking loans out i dont know about three to be ecact. He talks behind my back to my kids but they know better.tham what he tells them. His personal hygiene is horrible. He doent brush his teeth for weeks at a time. Showers probly 2 times a month
I cant keep doing this. Im unhappy. What do i do?

earthsage's picture

He needs to be on his own to wise up and get his mind on the right track. Kick him out! He doesn't sound like someone that would agree to go to therapy. He needs help, but not from you.

hippiegirl's picture

Sometimes, especially with men, you just have to flat out tell them. Tell him to shower and brush his teeth. Why is that not second nature for some people? Gross.