ok so I need other parents and step parents advise. I am a nursing student i work and i am a mom, and here is the issue my husband and are saving to go on vacation for the first time since we have been married which is4 years, to save money we decided to share and apartment and stop buying things we dont really need, im always busy i hardly get to spend time with bb and her dad bc when im not at work im studying or at school. so he decided that he is taking his 9 year old daugher with us and we are paying for everything and I said it was ok but i asked him to go for 5 weeks and take his daugher for only 3 weeks and sent her back to her mother and stay for 2 weeks just the 3 of us and he refuses to do that he says he has two dauther not just one, and he would rather not go than sending her back in 3 weeks, i dont think is unfair what i asked i knew he had a daughter and im ok with her going im just asking some family time just us because i need to spend time with them summer is my only free time, do u guys think im being unfair or what im asking is too much? and her mother is not paying a single penny for her Daughter vacations plus she is going to be with us the entire time and my husband is paying child support before we leave, his daughter had gone on vacation other years with her aunts. for us is the first time