Prom...FML The Aftermath
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IT WAS AWFUL! NEVER NEVER EVER AGAIN will I go to shit for that little evil bitch.
First of all, I didn't help her with anything, she asked to borrow my bracelets- no, the she asked FDH to ask me if she could borrow dangly earrings and a silver clutch- no and no- she's to much of a coward to ask me herself and fuck her, she's not borrowing shit.
Pictures ended up getting taken at her boyfriends house so we could meet his parents. It was beyond awkward. And I did go- FDH guilted me into goin and I was a little more willing since it wasn't at BM's. SD15 acted like I wasn't even there, FDH called me out to take a pic with SD15 in front of everyone and it was so phony AND
Here's the big grand finale.............
SD15 asked for a pic of her and her parents together.......exactly what I was afraid of, FH promised me that wouldn't happen. He never thought she would even ask.
It got dead silent and FDH was like " SD15 it's not like you are getting married" :? (why would he even say that???? he said he was on the spot and didn't know what to do)
BM was like "Ummmm you are standing alone babe"
FDH walked over to SD15 and stood by her for the picture and then BM walked over and SD15 started BAWLING....... Everyone was like oh it's ok, don't ruin your make up :sick:
R u fucking kidding me? The family pic she always wanted. I started gathering my things, I was in shock, I was furious- I could not even believe what was happening in front of me.
I walked out, We got in the car and I FREAKED out on FDH, it was not pretty. I still feel sick to my stomach. "he said what am I supposed to do? Let my daughter cry in front of everyone bc we don't want to take a pic??"
I'm shaking I'm so angry.
After smiling in his face, she sent him a text on Sunday morning that she's taking him to court for child support- even though he pays for EVERYTHING. She wants him to beg for him not too and offer to pay more bc she's broke and out of work and he makes good money. He spoke with a lawyer this morning and told her and now he's paying $50 more and she's supposedly stopping the order for support. Y would he even trust her???
I'm just livid.
It was a weekend from hell, I'm so angry. I'm done going to shit, I'm sick of his EX WIFE having him by the balls and every few months threatening him with court.
I told him he needs to get a lawyer and have her sign the agreement whether it's through mediation or whatever so she can stop with the threats. He called a lawyer this morning and then talked to XW and she agreed to his offer. I'm so fucking mad he's even playing her game- I said call her bluff! He is not a dead beat and takes care of everything anyway.
I feel sick :sick:
Weekend from hell. I need to set some boundaries- quick