Not invited to SD19 birthday dinner
My partner who I've been living with for 3,5+ years always go out with his ex and kids on their birthdays and I'm not invited ! I understund in the early stage of our relationship that it would have been inappropriate but not anymore ?
I find it hurtful and disrespectful to our relationship (he says I'm the love of his life and wants to marry me). He separated from his ex wife 7 years ago when kids were about 5yo and 12yo so they are very much used to not having their parents together.
Tomorrow is SD 19th birthday and I'm not going to the celebration, it's not even a question. I feel let down by my partner as he won't step up for me in this situation. His daughter can come in and out of the house anytime without greeting me or saying a single word to me and she gets away with it EVERY DAMN TIME. But if she does something rude to her mum he will call her and tell her to apologise to her mum.
Feeling really sad just needed to vent. Any advice to handle the situation/my emotions would be appreciated