LAZY Teenage SK
My FSS13 is so lazy! If he is asked to do the smallest thing, such as, please throw that candy wrapper in the trash, he will freak out. He says no, whines, complains, says you do it. Horrible behavior! He is a smart kid, does very well in school and does not get in trouble there.
Here, OMG, awful brat. He claims he hates living at BMs because SHE is LAZY. Says her house is gross, dirty and smelly. There is never any food or clean clothes to wear because she is too lazy to grocery shop or do laundry. But he is just like her! He expects that we wait on him hand and foot. He will not do a damn thing. Plays XBox, texts, messes around on computer and listens to music. I call him "the Prince" in my head.
FDH is not a whole lot of help as he acts like Disney Dad a lot of the time. It is a cause of a lot of conflict between us. I would NEVER let any kid of mine get away with that crap. But I get the "you don't have any kids so you don't get it" lecture from FDH. I think that I see things better BECAUSE I don't have any kids. I see a lazy, manipulative boy who is going to be incapable of doing anything for himself when he grows up.
As a result, I end up spending a lot of time pissed off when the kid is here. :sick: