just cannot blend
each time my sk's f##k up i get in shit!!!! both are 17 years old.... found drugs in their room few times now, the boy got so drunk at school that ambulance had to be called in. no respect, suspended from school etc
the girl now has a boyfriend ( who my fiance things is such a nice boy) fact: she just got caught in the shower with her boyfriend at her mother's house by her step dad......they won't tell my fiance cause they don't want daddy to know..... and from what i heard they all have an inside joke about it ( step dad, bio mom and the brother)
she has skipped school and was also caught by her boyfriends dad naked in his house/ drinking, lying to daddy where she goes etc ( he never checks up on her and beleives everything they say)
just last weekend they boy had his first sleep over (friends came to our house). in the morning he went to drop off his friends i found a big bottle of beer and small bottles of alcohol ( i collect little bottles from trips i go on) i tell my fiance and he does nothing!
kids call the dad by his first name not dad!!! so i told fiance...... stop acting like ( his name) and start acting like a father! offcourse.....once again full anger is on me not the person who just did something wrong!
i had my iud taken out yesterday, he knew i was so stressed about the appointment and after that fight he picks another fight with me over left over food in a pot that was left by him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! right when i am leaving! so i quickly took the pot and dumped out the food and left the pot in the sink., i reminded him to take out all garbages as he once again forgot, to clean the piss that was left all over the toilet seat by his son and to clear out the fridge..... all day he didn't even check up on me to see how my appt went! when i got home the f##king pot is still in the sink! and still did not ask how my appt went . his kids came home and brough him dinner from grandma, he washed the dish the food came in but still left the pot in the sink! he works from home..... can't f##king wash a pot? i have been super stressed about my iud being taken out as there is such a thing as mirena crash( i've had it for 5 years) and for someone to act like a child!!! i don't think i can do this much longer. i am always the bitch and everyone around is just an angel who does no wrong! at this point i just don't think he will ever change and actually start acting like a father! every other weekend has to be a fun out at daddy's!