did not sign up for fulltime parent status
i just recently moved in with my partner and the teenager was only two weekends a month plus tuesdays, i was always ok with this now he wants to live with us and my partner is thrilled, however i am not so excited. i did not sign up for this responsibilty and now i feel like a horrible person. the kid is basically a great kid however issues r starting to appear. just yesterday he waS FOUND TO BE popping pills, perscription drugs he is 14. am i an awful person for not wanting him to live with us?