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Cellphone Cesspool omg...

lintini's picture

So I guess last week BM bought ss12 a re-loadable time cellphone since he had the one that BM's father bought first lost on the ground at school where someone returned it to the office, then the next story was that it was stolen out of his backpack as well as his Ipodtouch that DH bought him (prior to him having the cellphone) So BM learned that a 10 year old turning 11 at the time couldn't handle having a cellphone. Which is why DH never put him on our cellphone plan.

So SS12 leaves the new cellphone downstairs when he went to bed finally at 1am. DH of course looks through it. We first notice multiple voicemails left from Mom and multiple texts messages asking "where are you? are you home? did you get home okay? All like that. And he didn't respond to her. The one time he did he replied that his cellphone was dead. Suuuuuuuuure. So this is interesting as he goes or is supposed to go directly home after school, and she gets off work several hours later. So maybe he's bringing "guests" over? Dunno.

THEN.....oh lordy.....He has several hundred texts to his friend, also a boy in 7th grade with him. The texts were so disturbing and disgusting I can't even look ss12 in the eye today. They were talking mainly about these 3 girls at his school. They were talking about which one to "fuck", and who did they make out with here and there, and just about tits and asses of these girls, just REALLY vulgar things. DH and I just looked at each other blankly with our jaws on the floor like WTF did we just read from a 12 year old!??!!?!?

Now back up in time..... to a photo that BM put on facebook back in June from his end of the year dance at his elementary school in 6th grade. SS12 is CROTCH thrusting like "YESSSSSSSS!!!" (a disturbing pose for a 12 year old) and her comment on the photo is, QUOTE "First dance last night. Three slow dances with three different ladies. Legendary;)" And BM's dad's response is "SO COOL!" And a bunch of other piggy comments that cheer on the fact that BM is encouraging him to be a player. At first this seems silly, nothing to worry about right? Well then after reading the texts and showing DH the photo, we are very concerned. 12 year olds?!?!?! OMG....12 year olds talking about "Fucking."

I feel so sorry for these girls parents at his school. Having 12 year old disgusting brats talk about their daughters that way?!?! I seriously want to vomit.

So now we think he could be sneaking girls over to his house after school before mom gets home. (DH has no idea what goes on at BM's house because they separated after SS12 was born) We can only make assumptions from his behavior at our house

DH and BM are not on good speaking terms because everything is always drama so even bringing this up will cause WWIII and it will all get blamed back on DH because BM is the MARTYR!!!!! The last two months BM has been a royal bitch. If it's not going in her favor, she's going to be a inconsiderate piece of shit and only care about herself and her boyfriend.

So......my SS12's new name from now and his day forth shall be called, Cesspool.

Poor DH is going to have his hands so full Sad

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

Kinda goes hand in hand with my post about social media the other day! I can promise you this kid is finding a way to look at porn! And I know there will be those that say it is natural for a boy to be curious at his age, but it sounds like this kid is turning into a class A douche!

Funny...SheSloth was showing DH a picture on her phone that she took. DH grabbed the phone, and started flipping through the pics! SheSloth got real nervous real quick and grabbed her phone away! DH asked what she had to hide, and she very defensively said, "Nothing! It's just MY phone and I don't like people looking through it!" Riiiiiight!

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

Exactly THIS ^^^

I'm sure there are about a billion selfies...but among those are boob selfies (where the focal point is her boobs and you only see her mouth and chin of the face), pics in her sports bras, and surely selfies of her flipping off the camera. Those seem to be her favorites! Who knows what else is on there...oh...SnapChat!, Kik, and probably other apps she is forbidden to have!

lintini's picture

I know right!?!?!? We were just talking about this stuff then omg....!!!!! BM is such an idiot, and yea she can care for his child at age 12/13.

I wonder if DH has made any plans to speak to him about this soon, we haven't had an adult conversation yet today. Cesspools ears are always burning for fresh information to bring back to BM. Sex talk at age 12!!!

Rags's picture

Parents who raise their son's to be gentlemen rarely have to deal with this kind of crap. Not that gentlemanly young men don't talk about who is hot, and allude to intimate activities. They most certainly do, they just do it with far less vulgar language.

My parents always counseled and required us to be gentlemen and polite to the ladies. My dad has a philosophy that he shared with his sons. All girls have hot friends so always be polite and respectful to all of the girls. Mom was less overt in her advice. She just demanded that we treat the young ladies as we would her. Not a conducive mental image to intimacy in your teens but it did get the point across that gentlemanly conduct was an expectation that both mom and dad had for their sons.

lintini's picture

Great advice and support everyone! Thank you! I don't think it will be long before he loses the cellphone again honestly. He already miss-placed it twice in one day, leaving it in the car and in the seat cushion of the couch. I don't know if DH would take it away from him this soon, I think since Cesspool just got the phone a week ago DH wants to wait it out a few more weeks and keep checking and then make a move. I asked DH why he thinks BM isn't even checking his phone. DH says, "BM thinks Cesspools shit doesn't stink and that he's a perfect little angel." Well said DH, well said. Maybe I'll just do everyone a huge favor and take it away myself and play stupid if it gets worse. That way DH doesn't have to lie to BM.

BM is such a hellraiser ....damned if you do, damned if you don't. Complains that DH doesn't spend enough time with Cesspool, then when he asks to get him two weekends in a row since he is celebrating Halloween (a Friday) with friends at her place (apparently he has a party he's going to) also, he has basketball now Fridays again till 9pm, and when she made him a Doctor appointment during DH's time on a Friday ........So yea she wouldn't let DH have 2 weekends in a row with Cesspool because then it threw off her weekends with her boyfriend because "We (bm and her bf) finally lined up our schedule when boyfriend doesn't have his 5 kids" Ok so........you bitch that DH doesn't spend enough time with him yet you sign him up for basketball again that practices late Fridays when we have a 2 hour drive each way, THEN, you schedule shit during DH's time like a non important sports physical that could have been done earlier in the week, THEN you put your BOYFRIEND ahead of DH's time with Cesspool ..........god this bitch just can't make up her god damn mind.

lintini's picture

I don't know if I posted this anywhere else.......I don't think I did hahahahaha

As of last week Thursday he lost or had his cellphone stolen already LOL!!!!!

That didn't even last a damn month!!!!!

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

This is the other reason I don't want SheSloth on our data. I'm pretty sure she has been sending "questional" pictures through means other than Instagram and Facebook. I'm certain that she has SnapChat!, and uses it with her phone connected to wifi.

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

I'm thinking we may be locking SheSloth's devices out of the router completely if her recent behavior keeps up. DH is finally getting tired of her crap. Like I said in another post...I think some webs are unraveling. When DH got home with SheSloth Friday after the game, there was some talk about not being completely truthful. Then all week, he has been getting upset with her disappearing to her room without saying a word to him, her attitude, not doing what she is told. Today, I tell him she is still texting during school hours. Girl is digging a hole.

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

I'm hoping, too. DH has been getting really annoyed with her lately. This week, she has "last minute" been staying after school again...supposedly has this and that to do.

The way they set up data on our limits at the moment, you can only turn it on and off...you can't set an amount. Probably a good thing, as the girl does not need everywhere internet. Not being able to lock down an amount gives me an excuse to not give it to her at all. She has been caught talking to older guys on Kik, lying about her age. She is known for what I call the "boob selfie"...where the focus is on her boobs, and you may see her mouth and chin on her face. She tries to claim she is being artistic...yeah right! She's also been caught posting pictures of her in a sports bra and low-rise PJs...well, the PJs at least folded down to just above her butt crack...showing off more skin on the internet than any 15 year old should.