Amazing how much screwing up can occur in 4 months
So it has been just over 4 months since SD has been in our home. I am not sure if DH is still reaching out as much, I try hard not to make our home and time all about talking about SD and BM. So occasionally unless he tells me something I ask if anything new has transpired because I worry about his mental health and holding onto things because he doesn't want to burdon me.
I sometimes wonder if SD realizes that we are connected on Instagram, and Pintrest and I see her post. My concern about her now is exactly what I thought would transpire. She seems to have a new boyfriend, he drives a car, they are saying "I Love you" on social media and he has a BEARD. SD just turned 14 in August and is a VERY immature 14 year old but looks much older than her years. She is tall, curvy and wears enough makeup to make the Kardashian's look bare faced. She has a boyfriend who stated he went to an area high school in 2013! I know that can be a lie because kids lies about their age to gain access to social media earlier but he is CERTAINLY not a peer of hers agewise. I mentioned it to DH and he didn't say anything about it so then I shouldn't worry but it's amazing how things get worse in so little time, 4 months and I don't even reconize who SD is anymore with her choices and mostly because she can get away with whatever she wants under BM's roof.
I really hope BM has her on birthcontrol - le sigh