Alcoholic bio mom, drug addicted as. Codependent enmeshed sd.
Dh divorced bio 3 1/2 years ago and moved cross country to get away from the toxic family. Ss arrested multiple times, sd codependent with bio mom and enmeshed with mom as and dad.
But hes breaking away doing g better, but I have large questions here?
I'm getting sick and tired of them calling him spewing their Wo is me Bullsh....t...His cousin calls gives him the ( your drunk ex this that updates...)..
Naturally he worries about his kids, worries about the sd who has Major major FAILURE TO LAUNCH ISSUES. Plus she Flat OUT Refused TO ACKNOWLEDGE OUR WEDDING PERIOD AND refused TO COME Or even ask about it. I posted pics on her fb page (sd) page and shes silent. Dh ask her aren't you happy for me, silence. Shes 23, ss is 29.
How do I handle the enormous amount of frustration and anger at them for spewing their toxic BULLDHI....T I to our lives? I told him how upset it makes me. But then he'll just keep it in to himself.
I want him to share with me but he really should cut them off and stop allowing them to vent repetitive patterns of dysfunction. He can not fix them and should not be their sounding board fir a problem only they can fix. They are all self absorbed and don't care if they give him a heart attack.
Do I say something to him to make them stop? Do I call them out and make them hate me even more than they already do? Or just sit by and watch him get abused and used a d ditch on my ANGER AT THEM. Until I bust?
It affects our happy lives. His moods suck. Forget love and affection. Like a f...ing funeral everytime they call.
So how to I address this buger?