Advice from bio dads
Hi all bio dads,
My dad and I are close but when I was a child my step-mother was jealous of this. Before they got married my dad cheated on my step-mum with my mother. Which to be honest I do blame my dad for the way step-mum treated me sometimes he didnt help matters. Anyway my dad and mum slept together but it meant nothing to them. This resulted in my mother getting pregnant with my sister and then sadly she died at 2.
Let me get to the point. Since then onwards my step-mother really resented me and was jealous. Would ask me all sorts of questions about how much money my dad gave me. Very insecure about everything my father which was understandable but I didn't like. Even my dad would tell what to say if she asked me certain question and if she said something I couldn't answer he would tell her to ask me etc or its none of her business. So did the best I can was a very shy girl. Anythings this went on for a long time. Oh yeah my dad would give me money or buy me clothes behind her back. Even I remember he came and took me out to this fun fair behind her back.
I been getting on well with my step-mum for awhile now and my dp and i went down for the weekend with out lo. Anyway we were out in the sports shop and I had gone downstairs with my bf. Then my dad came down and gave me some money. I knew she didn't know about this. He and my step-mum already bought us a stroller for a lo.
I just wonder why my dad keeps on hiding things like this from her? Have any of you had to do this with your wifes worried of her reaction on how much you give you own child?