Does anyone else have problems dealing with a stepchild with ODD ( oppositional defiance disorder). It drives me crazy to the point of not wanting to be here. She was supposed to go to her mom for the summer and school year but her mom doesn't want to deal with her. She was going to counseling and was on adderall but her father made her responsible to take her med daily (she was 10 turning 11) and since she wasn't taking her meds like she was supposed to her father took her off of it. Her father and I can't spend time together without her right there with him, as soon as he gets home from work they're spending time together watching a movie or playing xbox until he goes to bed and even then she comes to the room waking us up over things that can wait until morning... like one night she woke him up to tell him there's dishes in the sink. I work mostly overnights and when I'm at home it would be nice to get uninterrupted sleep which seems to be impossible. Does anyone else go through stuff like this?