38 year old son with Aspbergers living home with Me and Step-dad
I am new here and hope to get to know you and read about the trials you are facing in your lives. I am not new to being a step-parent and I can tell you it stinks!
My problem is this.
I have a 38 year old son who moved in with us about 2 years ago. He is separated from his wife and tried to commit suicide. He has aspbergers and life is very challenging for him, for he suffers from severe depression and anxiety. He has a job a new one that he seems to be able to handle and he even likes. He has been employed for about 3 months now. Prior to this he had a full-time job he worked for for about 10 years. (Thats another Story I don't need to get into now.).. He has a son, my grandson who we see during the week after school and on the weekends.
My husband wants him to leave our home by June. But he only makes $10.00 an hour not enough to live on.
He also has no money, he has nothing. The thought of kicking him out with nothing bothers me. I don't feel its fair for him to be thrown out when he is trying to get on his feet. My husband does not understand what my son goes through in his head every day. If my husband makes him leave, I feel like I would want to leave too, because I know my son lcannot make it on his own with the challenges he faces. And I could not live with myself if I let this happen. I really need some un-biased opinions. If you could help, I would so appreciate it.
Thanks so much!