Change in my feelings for my step son
Recently I have honestly hated being around my step son. He was my world for the last eight years. Recently he has changed to a point I don’t recognize him and honestly can’t stand him. I’m about to finally marry his father but we are constantly fighting about his son.
Today alone. I woke up and said alright we have got to get some back to school shopping done as the mother won’t . He was playing video games and ended up not being able to save for about 30 mins. So we waited outside for him to finish and everyone was ready. I came inside and he was way past the save point. I made him shut it down and we left. Hell broke loose due to his tears and poor me attitude. We turned the vechicle around and came home and I got told “I was curious is being curious a crime”I didn’t do anything wrong, you never told me nothing. I don’t have to talk to you.”
I’m emotionally loosing it. No one in my life understands this step parent role. In the last three months I’ve been accused of beating his dad, being horrible to him to the point he is terrified of me because he got in a fight at school and was losing privlages. my mom hates you so much, my mom would burn your wedding flowers, you not actually my step mom.
Im starting to not like being around at all to the point I actually leave my own home just to avoid him. Anyone else had a really bad spell. We are about to get married and I’m terrified these feelings won’t leave now that they are here. This boy was my entire world and in the last year we just haven’t had any good moments no matter how hard I try. The only way I can get him to be nice is to give him what he wants and the second he has it I mean nothing again. Does this get better? His dad doesn’t understand because he isn’t the victim of the accusations and the constant mean comments. When his son does these things his son always turns the blame that I was mean in my tone, I didn’t tell him anything. It’s at a point his rules are on his wall and he still tells me I didn’t know. I’m frustrated , upset and just hope to god this is a faze and it gets better. Any advice would be appreciated!