Negative step son
Hi I'm new here. This has been bothered me so much for a while now and I just wanted to let this out and get some advice. Me and my boyfriend was in a relationship for 4 years and finally got married. I have no kids, he have 4 kids (3 daughters and a son) and 2 BMs.
Our relationship was great! He loves me and give me everything and I could never ask for more but I feel like I'm starting losing him and I don't want to lose him because of his kids and his two BMs. Well his son come over every weekend and sometimes his 3 daughters. 2 of the daughters is about 13 and 14 years old they big already so they barely come around but when they do we barely talk and they always give me that ugly look every time I walked passed them. That makes me felt so uncomfortable and when I told my husband about the situation we always got into an arguement and he always told me stuff like maybe I just don't like his 2 daughters. He makes me felt afraid of his kids because everything he blamed on me and make me the bad one. Don't get me wrong I do want to get along with them and love them like a step parent should but how when the kids act like this towards me and I can't even say anything about it. I'm tired of arguements and getting slapped at just because I complained about how his kids are towards me. And is it normal for a 5 years old little boy to called me a b*tch, ugly asshole, stupid, dumb ass every time I told him nicely not to do stupid things? Or when he asked me for something and I told him no or not right now he will tell me stuff like " shit yo face ugly butt hole?" And when I brought up to my husband we always got into an arguements and he will end up putting his hands on me. What should I do? I felt like its my fault because he said they just little kids they don't know nothing better but its annoying and irritating me.