I can't stand my 10 year old SD
I have a 10 yo SD that I can't stand! I feel horriable for feeling this way but she is a passive aggressive brat. When she is around just me she wants to be my best friend but when her dad (my husband) is around she acts like I am the wicked witch. She will go home on Sundays in a good mood but then her mother will make a call to my husband saying things like "E came home and tears and dosn't feel comfortable anround your wife." This usally results in a fight between my husband and I.
My hubby and I have a 13 month old and another one on the way and the way he tip-toes around SD so "she doesn't feel left out" has not only affected our relationship but also his relationship with our daughter. One day I caught her pushing my 13 month old (she was 10 months at the time) down and just stared at her while she screamed. When I sent her to her room he told me I was being to hard on her :jawdrop: . She later told my mother-in-law that I made her stay in her room all day with no food or water. And yes she believed her. SD also told her mother that my hubby beat her and that I lock her and my daughter in the car while I shop. Her mother called CPS and they did an investigation. Thank God the case was dropped because they felt she was lying.
The latest happing occured on Monday night when my hubby took her diner and a movie. Apperently she told him that I make her uncomfortable and she is scared to be around me. Hubby and I tied up in a huge fight about this and haven't spoken since. I am sick and tired of this little game. I hate to say it but I can't stand SD and I dread her coming over her. I never thought I could dislike a kid so much but everything about this kid gets on my nerves!
If anyone has some advice I would love to hear it. I am so greatful for this site - I was starting to feel like I was a bad person for feeling this way.