Girlfriends daughters are a nightmare
Hi. I have been dating my GF for about 1-1/2 years now and we started talking about moving in together. Since these conversations, my GF's EX has started talking trash to them about their mother, which in turn has turned them against her. She has the custody, and every other weekend, he has visitation. It is getting worse and worse, if he disciplines them, spanking, reprimanding, etc., the girl's are OK. If my GF tries to reprimand them for doing something wrong, or not doing something they are told to do, they call their father and he calls the police claiming abuse. CPS has been there multiple times and have found nothing, but the DD's think they now do not have to listen to mom. It is ruining the relationship. Help!
Also, I cannot help with the kids, because they say, "I don't have to listen to you, because you are not my father". It pains me because my relationship with the girls used to be good.