15 year old stepdaughter issues
i have a 15 year old step daughter. My husband has had her full time for 4 years. Her mum is a druggy and drunk and contributes nothing to her daughters upbringing. My sd uses her mum to buy her things that my husband wouldn’t and also goes to stay at her mums on a weekend night because her mum will let her get away with anything, lots of stuff a 15 year old shouldn’t be doing like having her bf over to stay.
My sds bf is 17 and has now started spending every minute she can with her boyfriend. My husband told her this morning he wanted her to come straight home after school today and her response was ‘yeah I can, my bfs at work anyway’
i personally don’t care, it means I get more alone time with my husband, but I just feel like my husband is always being taken advantage of by his daughter
we never get to have time on our own because we are at home for when his daughter gets home. Recently she’s been really selfish and when she does stay at her moms she always tells us she is last minute. We told her she needs to give her notice so we can then go somewhere on our own as she won’t be home anyway. She said she needs us to stay home in case her mom, as regularly happens, let’s her down and we need to be there for her