Should I tell SD
We have custody of SD due to BM being and addict, homeless, and SD almost never going to school. We have had custody for 3 yrs, to which BM has only tried to contact her twice. Last year around her birthday, but making demands to take her; and a few weeks ago. She was pregnant and just had a new baby (yes she is still actively using), and with one of the guys she was seeing (who is a violent addict with warrants) when she lost custody. My husband wants to tell SD that she has a new sibling, but I am not sure she should be told yet. She already has siblings that she doesn't see due to COVID, but when talking to them they don't really talk to her. Maternal grandmother has never put SD first, and SD is not wishing to talk to her.
What should I do? I just don't want to see my SD hurt anymore.