PAS SS reached out
Thank you for your replies in regards to BF wanting full custody. We dealt with it in therapy, where therapist told BF that this affects me as well, and he needs to discuss big life events with me from now on. I understand him wanting SS away from BM because of her behavior I am still not sure what to think about it…….
SS has started reaching out to BF, talking small talk when BM not home, telling him things like he cannot wait to “visit” him. He does not ask about me or mention if we are still together (As last I heard he told BF he would never see him again until he dumps me).
In addition to BM bringing stacks of BF’s text messages (If you haven’t been following she broke into his iCloud account years ago and has been reading EVERYTHING he has done) and showed a thread message texts to the court between a woman named “Carol” who BF had dated briefly and he sent some D*** pics. BM made the comment that this would surely break us up once I find out about it. The problem is that the thread was dated before we met and he told me about her (Ummm not about the D*** pics but I already knew about her!!!)
Anyway, I don’t know if SS is reaching out now because he thinks we are broken up or not. My anxiety is through the roof, I have no desire to go through what I went though before. I made it very clear in therapy that since I have been emotionally, physically and publicly dragged through the mud by BM and WILL NOT BE disregarded by BF. To be continued I guess!!!!