Need Help Writing a Letter... Please? BioMom has BPD...
So, biomom has BPD and has been alienating us for years.. We've read Divorce Poison and it's helped.. The kids are in therapy and we're working on getting a Guardian ad Lietum but in the meantime the Drs and Lawyers think we should email her a letter telling her plain and simple that we are begging for help, communication and that her nastiness will not be tolerable any more. They say it will help our case and cause to "go on record" asking her to help. Right now we do all pick ups, drop offs and pay through the nose.. Biomom is mean and lies and she has flat out told us "you two are on your own". Anyhow.. I can't seem to muster up the words.. Can anyone eloquently help me? I want to ask for help, ask for communication, remind her if the importance of us all getting along and also remind her that her behavior will not be tolerated any more.. Thoughts? Words of wisdom? I know it will go in one ear and out the other bur at lease we can say we tried and this way the court will see the one way efforts going un answered.
Thanks so much in advance.