It just hit the fan. DH just told them literally everything.
I can't even believe what just happened. The kids were telling DH that it's all his fault that they can't see their cousins (he told them that he's keeping them during his cistody time when mom tried to plan a cousin visit something over it)They told him that things were great until I came along and that he puts us first (this is all their mothers alienation tactics) screaming at him. I mean it was bad! Omg y'all. He pulled the car over and he said "that's it. You guys are old enough to know the truth" He told them EVERYTHING. He told them about the alienation of their mother, how she lied and tried to say he abused them, how she's using them as pawns, why she withheld them, that she tells him that they hate him and don't want to see him. That every time they leave our house she sends us messages saying that theg had an awful time. I mean he told them everything. He was crying. They were crying. They hugged him and said they were so sorry. I'm in shock right now. I don't know if this was a good or bad thing Omg.