BIFF Response working? Or BM scheming?
So my boyfriend has physical custody of the kids, BM gets EOWE visitation.
BM is EXTREMELY HOSTILE, and possibly an undiagnosed narcissistic personality disorder based on what we have seen in her behavior.
Within the last year my boyfriend has switched to email only communication and at first this eased tension, but then it escalated it.
I just discovered Bill Eddy's BIFF Book and showed it to my boyfriend. He has within the last week or so been using BIFF.
And it is like night and day, BM immediately responded in the same manner, (factual, to the point, not emotional, no foul language, all about the kids, no pointing fingers of blame)
This is obviously GREAT, but we all worried on this side that it is "too good to be true" and that BM knows what is going on, or has an alternative motive.
Anyone have experience with this?