I am really struggling with YSD who is all over DH like a rash again manipulating him every way she can. I haven’t seen her in ages as he usually meets her alone in a restaurant. It sounds awful but I have got used to not having her around for so long that I don’t want to see her at all now! However he has invited her over for Christmas and I am dreading it.
She bosses DH around which winds me up, makes it obvious that she only wants to be with DH ( he can’t see this of course) and has never wanted to form any relationship with me despite my best efforts. I think she is more of a nightmare because DH has always had issues establishing healthy boundaries with her. He has let her run the show from an early age confiding in her and telling her our private business.
It just feels like there are 3 people in this marriage now and I can’t cope anymore!!