Him: Killjoy wants to go early to her mom’s house.
Me: I thought you said she hates her mom. I told you: She’s been playing you.
Him: She wants to go early because her mom is baking treats.
Me: So she hates her mom unless there’s something in it for her? So, what you’re saying is Killjoy doesn’t really have values: it’s all about her and what she’s “getting”? BM has always used food to manipulate her, and that is why she is overweight and has an eating disorder. I don’t want to see it or hear about it anymore.
Him: Should I let her go early?
Me: Why are you asking me?
Him: I value your opinion.
Me: Really? Because whenever I say something, you either say, “I don’t want to hear it”, or you just do whatever you want anyway. You know what I would say. If you give BM something, she thinks you are now BFFs, and she’ll start calling and texting 20x/day asking for things, and berating you, right where it left off.
Him: I know.
Me: Then why did we have this conversation? Now I’m pissed. You keep telling me Killjoy sees through her mom’s toxic bullsh!t. It’s never going to happen. Killjoy is enmeshed with her mom, always has been, always will be. She tells you what she thinks you want to hear. Get it through your head: She’s playing you.
Him: She’s better now.
Me: What do you mean?
Him: She stopped the pouting and the tantrums.
Me: Really?? That’s another thing I don’t need to hear constantly. How could she be better when there was nothing wrong before? You told me for years it was all in my head.
Him: I saw it.
Me: So you GASLIT me for the last 8 years???
Him: No, I saw it, it just never bothered me. But she’s better now.
Me: So you’ve been f*cking lying to me for 8 years and you expect me to believe you now??? How would you know if she was better? You said she wasn’t doing it, but now she’s stopped??? Let’s just stop this. She’s manipulative as f*ck. That won’t change. I will NEVER believe either of you again. So don’t bother. She wanted me out of her life, she got what she wanted.
Him: She misses you. She wants a mom.
Me: That’s a steaming pile of bullsh!t. Stop telling me that. She wants you to feel sorry for her her, and it’s working. She’s playing you. Things aren’t going back to the way they were. Ever. Accept it.
Him: I miss doing things together.
Me: So, it's all about you and making you comfortable? Want to know what I miss? I miss my mental health.