I’m ready to walk away from my 1 year marriage
My husband has 2 girls. The younger one has been telling a lie about me every weekend she’s here even when I’m completely disengaged from her.
Even though it’s an obvious pattern, my husband believes her. This girl binge eats and leaves used food containers in her drawers that I have ended up having to clean up. Both girls also leave used maxi pads in the house. But enough about that.
Last time, she stole my ice cream (I use special ice cream as I cannot eat sugar), snuck it upstairs, ate it, bragged to her sister that she stole it from me. My husband texted them (as we didn’t notice it was gone until after they were here) and asked if someone took it. She initially said no, then admitted to it. (I saw her sneaking out something (apparently the empty container) to the outdoor garbage can at the end of their time here, but since I do not engage with her, I ignored it.). My husband said she needed to apologize... she never has. a. She could’ve asked (she’s a binge eater and there’s plenty of other crap she could and did eat) or b. Just apologize!
Today, he noticed that many of our beer glasses were missing. I said ask the girls maybe they took em upstairs. The younger one again said she took them, and he proceeded to tell her to bring them down. Many times he texted and went to her room and told her to bring them down. Then she also avoided coming down for dinner. He finally went up there and asked wth was going on... apparently she took a bunch of those glasses to her mom’s house (some of those are mine from marathons and races I completed) as well as the expensive electric toothbrush he got them for Christmas... she even took a beanbag that custom matched her curtains in her room here to her mom’s house.
so what did she have to say? She said that she took them to her mom’s house because she said I would get mad if she brought them downstairs and put them in the dishwasher... like that makes sense. I’d be gosh damn thrilled if I didn’t have to clean the dirty food containers and wrappers in her room! So again... more lies... but the husband sort of believed her shit.
so when he should come down on her, he says I need to go and have a conversation with her... so even though I told him no as she’s clearly a thief and liar and I do not have to do the work on this... I went up there. I knocked on her door and also turned on my voice recorder (smart).. she wouldn’t say a word nor would she open the door. So I told her like it is through the door... 1. She’s trying to drive this family as well as her dad and I apart and that’s not going to happen. I’m here to stay. 2. The lying and theft has to stop. 3. We want our stuff back. 4. I will not tolerate her lying about me.
I tried to ignore this bull crap and his believing her lies and him thinking I have to have a conversation with this twerp but it took me to my breaking point.