Husband favors SS
DH favors middle SS. He treats him more as a buddy at times. He will still discipline but if this kid does the same thing as his siblings, he will likely get away with it and they won't. It drives me crazy and feels like a power thing, like this kid has too much power and the balance is off. I try to disengage but am struggling with this. I guess if he is going to grow up to be entitled that is not my fault, but it is more it just doesn't feel fair or right and is hard for me to respect DH when he does this. I've mentioned it to DH but he still doesn't get it. Should I just let it go? And if so, how do I not resent this kid?