How can I hate a 6y/o!!
Hi everyone. Found this website after googling I hate my step daughter and felt some what relieved when I found lots of other quotes like this.
Ive been in my SD life since she was 18 months old she used to be such a pleasant little girl I loved spoiling her and spending time with her and we had an awesome relationship but as we grew closer the more HC BM became, BM is awful excuse of a mother. She sends SD in clothes that are way too small and tight for her always in the same gross clothes it's basically neglect. Now SD is older we just can't get along. She is so weird she sneaks around corners listening to me and DH. She waits until I leave the main living area and she will run out her room and sit on her Dads lap which I find so uncomfortable! I'm not jealous of her at all I just find her so awkward I can tell DH feels awkward too because she's so full on. She follows him around the kitchen but doesn't even talk to him she constantly wants to touch him and hug him it's gross. We have always had trouble with her hygiene and she is obese for her age like VERY obese. This also effects her hygiene. She can't wipe her ass when she goes the toilet and leaves shit in the toilet which is the only toilet used by her and often if we forget to check it's clean I'll find shit in the toilet way after she's gone home. Tonight I found shit in the toilet and after talking to her last weekend about how important it is to flush and wipe and wash hands we thought she would feel more comfortable about asking for help when she needs the toilet we have tried the nice approach but now I'm so angry because she gets away with it with no consequences. I told DH he needs to sit her down again and tell her she's getting the lego taken away and NO movies with us before bed time until she starts to tel us when she's been the toilet so we can check she's clean. She's had multiple fungal infections due to her not wiping her ass and when we bring it up to BM she pretends as if this isn't an issue at her house now I'm beginning to think SD does it on purpose to piss her off. I hate her I can't stand her being in my house I'm sue to have a baby any minute and I don't want her around my baby because of how dirty she is. I can't stand looking at her every where I go she sneaks around the house if I catch her staring at me or watching us from the couch she looks away and pretends she wasn't looking it's seriously weird. I hate that I hate her but I'm so sick of this BS. Is punishing her for constantly leaving shit in the toilet reasonable and what sort of consequences???? I'm at my whit end. Please help I would happily never see her again I don't miss her when she's gone and I sure as hell can't wait till she leaves when she's here.