Handling snide comments
I have disengaged from 3 SKs, the only time I see them is if DH extended family has a function where everyone is invited eg Christmas, Easter, a birthday party. I normally ignore the SKs completely as they do me but one SDs at some point always makes a snide comment aimed at me. It’s done subtlety that probably no one else hears it but of course I hear it loud and clear. I have always ignored the comments so not to make a scene at the host family members function but it’s making me feel like I’m a pushover and they once again get away with being a bitch.
What would you do in this situation, continue to ignore them or say something back and risk a ‘scene’ happening?