End marriage or remove ss?
I don't know if this is right area but I'm at my wits end after a ruined father's day. Literally went to bed let him deal with kids for afternoon while txting him I want a divorce.
I've just survived a weeks holiday abroad where ss 10 has acted mostly like a feral animal, if not running everywhere shouting, being mean or encouraging bd 3 to act same etc. He usually ignores any input from me but a few times I shouted myself and he got the message.
One day off now he's dropped off by bm for father's day, (no greeting to his dad about that lucky I got him a card to sign.) insists he must have his passport back as bm waiting outside to go book their holiday today, one-upmanship whatever. From the get go he's destructive, fighting with 3 yr old over a balloon for his dad, really physically fighting being mean coming to her level, I'm doing my best to stop it, husband sat there playing with his new gadgets. Eventually I lost it n launched the damn balloon outside to the sky, 3 yr old in tears.
Now, we go to a really nice restaurant like I've really looked forward to this best and all I can afford etc. From get go same as above, feet on chairs winding up 3 yr old, breaking things on the table. Me and husband getting wound up and embarrassed but husband just keeps saying no etc. I would've taken ss and smacked him at this point I truly would. The bill comes and I was paying my treat etc but because I'm busy breaking up the kids shit show husband goes to pay. I just lost it hissed at him to damn well leave it and control his kid/s. He says dnt ever speak to me like that again. Honestly I could have stabbed him his ss, anyone. Went home in silence and I have come straight to bed and cried like a baby. Everything nice I do and pay for ss ruins. Disney daddy never does anything until too late and my daughters turning feral herself. I have said by message it's over, he may or may not agree but other than that do I ask him to see ss away from us as much as possible