What is considered joint decisions?
HCBM is completely incapable of including DH in any decisions. This week she made the decision to have youngest SS take the bus even though DH rather him not due to unnecessary exposer to Covid. She just made that decision without him. Then she talked to SS about baseball and her and SS decided which team he would like to do and then she told DH about it completely excluding him from the convo. The thing is SS is already on a swim team and DH doesn't like then doing more than one sport a season because there is overlap snd BM just "let's then choose" which team they want to do if there are overlapping games/meets. So, this is going to be another fight of course.
So, they have joint legal custody. What is considered joint decision making? I mean the definition is so vague. Would it be things like if he takes the bus or not? Or which baseball team he's on? I mean, these things seem petty but it's literally always an argument over every little thing so we want to pick our battles.