More threats from the alienator
So HCBM told DH that her brother is coming in from out of town. It is of course over DH's time. He explained to her that we already have plans. She told the kids their cousins are coming and they want to see them. She told DH that she's concerned that if he blocks them from seeing their cousins that it will further strain their relationship. She's such a manipulative horrible sick abuser. Their relationship is strained because SHE keeps doing things like this. Then put him in the position that she WILL tells them kids it's his fault. So sick. Using her kids like that.
So, we have two choices. Stick with our plans and deal with his kids being complete a-holes and ruining our time because they rather be with her or just giving into her manipulation and letting them just go and dealing with this endlessly. I'm sick of fighting with a very unhealthy toxic person. She is beyond sick.
I do think it's absolutely horrendous that she completely disregards DH's time with the kids, threatening him to obey her demands or she will tell the kids that he "blocked them" and tries to guilt him. She's just trash. Complete trash. But, the courts don't give a crap and nothing will ever be done about it. This is hell.