How much should I watch my SD?
My SD is a sweet 6 year old and she and I have a very good relationship. My DH and the BM have 50/50 custody. I am a teacher, so during school breaks and summers I watch SD on DH's days.
Now BM wants me to watch SD on her days as well. I am feeling overwhelmed. I would like a break sometimes as I work 55-60 hours during the school year with my teaching job and tutoring in the evenings. So DH told her I am unable to watch SD on BM's days. Now BM is being all passive aggressive about it and me being the person that I am have started to feel guilty.
Is the boundary I set to not watch SD on BM's days reasonable? Or am I shirking my duties as SM?