Ex missing visits- wants to give away to grandparents
So my ex was supposed to make his visit a few weeks ago. He didn’t message me at all to let me know he was planning to miss. I had to get ahold of him to make sure he was going to come. He told me he couldn’t due to financial troubles (he’s out of state, so I tried to be understanding) I’m not sure when he was planning to tell me . Then he asked if he could make up his visit a few weeks later and I agreed . I message him to make sure he was coming and got a similar reply about financial troubles and he couldn’t make it but now he’s asking if his mother (whom he lives with) can have his weekend with DD. Idk how to approach this . What should I do?