BM lost it and screamed in front of kids
So if you have haven't read my other posts, BM has been doing some really nasty things. She does not want the kids to have a family outside of her. She does everything on her power to keep them from us. They love being with us and we have a wonderful relationship with them despite her best efforts. So one of her ploys is to sign the kids up for multiple sports at one time so our entire weekend with them is only DH taking them to sports where she is there waiting and takes over. There are several reasons that this does not work. Not for us and definitely not for the kids. So, he told her that he supports the boys doing sports but multiple at one time is not healthy as we have spoke to professionals about this and following their recommendation as well as the kids not having ANY time here for homework, or to play with friends or take care of their pets it's just not doable. So he said he will let them pick any sport they want for the season. Youngest picked wrestling and DH is coaching and oldest picked swim and DH takes him to all his practices ect...
Well she went and signed them up anyway and pretty much laughed at DH and said "I need your confirmation that you WILL take them to whatever they want" he ignored her. He was already clear about where he stands.
So he goes and picks the boys up tonight for our weekend and she walks out smirking with baseball gear and says "here is his baseball gear"
DH said "we don't need that thanks"
Well apparently she lost it. He said she was screaming that they are not objects, they are human beings and it's not DH's time, it's THEIR time and they should be able to do whatever they want to do and told him he's awful and ridiculous and it's horrible what he's doing to his kids" he took the kids and got them in the car and tried to leave and she stuck her head in the car and was screaming her head off right over oldest SS head. DH asked her politely to step away from the car and she was just yelling
So they leave and DH said "I'm sorry you guys had to be in the middle of that. It's going to be okay. Let's go have a great weekend" he said neither one said a word the whole time she was screaming then after he said that they just started talking and acting like nothing happened. The kids have been in a great mood tonight, laughing and being silly and happy as can be. So, what now? Just let it go? Should he talk to them or let it go or what??
This is crazy. She has been doing some realty disturbing things. He's going to bring a friend to drop them off on Sunday for a witness just in case. She's losing it!