Wish my Stepson's mother would get her act together and take him!
I am a newbie to these boards and appreciate your feedback and help.
I am in a newly "blended family" with my fiancee and I, my 2 biological sons ages 9 and 6 and his son Matthew, age 8 and Autistic.
Thing is, I can't stand this child. Everyone does everything for him because of his disability. Let me be more clear about his autism, he is very high functioning, verbal, etc. His real "autistic" behavior is stimming and social skill deficits along with severe gross and fine motor skill delays.
Matthew is defiant in school, but ooh, let's all try to cater to his needs. HIs father and grandparents all do everything for him, no wonder his ot and pt skills are so poor, kid has never been forced to do shit for himself. He has anger problems and a nasty mouth. He will tell me i'm stupid, i'm dumb, he will HIT ME, kick me, put his fists in my face, scream in my face, etc.
When he's bad he gets "talked to". When my kids are bad, they get put in their rooms, in timeout, lose outside friend playtime, etc. but poor matthew....FUCK MATTHEW is my reply. I am to a point where I have nothing in me but resentment toward this child. I resent that he can't put a fucking straw in his capri sun, that i have to some days forcibly dress him, deal with his tantrums, etc. and there is no repercussions for his behaviors towards me.
Thanks for listening,