Sports above all else?
I'm getting so irritated. BM packs on the sports and it's completely taken over. SS does travel team so he's going out of town in a few weeks. SS who does rec team has an in town game. So, since BM has right of first refusal, DH is going to take SS and other SS is going to stay back with BM. We were actually thinking of all going, watching SS game one day then doing something as a family on the time off. However, the kids know they need to please their mother so SS will say he rather stay home and go to his game instead of us all going on a trip which is so sickening. Also, BM told the judge that DH didn't take the boys to sports in all of 2019 so they judge ordered that DH is to take them to sports. That was a huge lie! Not only did he take them, he was SS's COACH. She literally lied to the judge's face and because we had no proof to dispute it (of course we had no idea she would lie like that so why would we have proof he took them) so now what? Does sports come before anything else? Before family? I'm so sick of it. I'm so sick of her using sports to manipulate our time. Grrrrr! Court might still be 6 months away. I'm so annoyed by it all.