She thinks she owns him!
I can't take it. No matter how much we ignore her, BIFF her, pay zero attention to her, no matter how much he says "no" to her ridiculous requests she STILL doesn't stop acting like she's his wife and he needs to do as she says. She even said "we need to show the kids that things are the same as from when we were married" she is in some weird competition with me that I want nothing to do with. I have ZERO contact with her and ZERO desire to be in some psychotic competition with her. I have no doubts about where my husband's heart and mind is. We both just want her to leave us alone! DH does the bare minimum of what is legally required and nothing else. It's been months and she still says things like "you need to give me your medical records for the well being of the children" or "you need to tell me when you are traveling for work for the well being of the children" or "you need to communicate daily with me for our children's well-being" or "you need to demonstrate that we can show the kids that things can be the same as when we were married" I'm sick to death of it. She absolutely doesn't get the hint and I don't think she ever will. She is desperate for his attention. Her attorney told my attorney that she was adamant about having me deposed even though he is not really ok with it. We all know it's just to get information and cause issues and try to insert herself in our lives. No matter how much we try to keep her out she pushes and pushes and pushes her way trying to get through. She can't stand that he's not paying any attention to her and she literally will.not.stop. How the hell do we deal with this?? She is pathetic! I know people say they eventually back off. I'm telling you. She won't. It's been 5 years and she still tries everything she can to get him to pay attention to her.